She had actually called me several times over the course of the affair. I was trying for medical school, and my grades were pristine. I learned a language and met some of the coolest friends. Oh well. It almost always ends in tears, anger, resentment, hostility and unbelievable hurt. No kids? Never. We talked a long time and I told her that I was going to contact her husband and let him know that I knew and how disappointed I was in both of them . Butbe prepared for her to deny and deny and deny until confronted with that proof. Though I run this site, it is not mine. What is your deal? Whats wrong with you? Leave the wife and go away its her fault to have her lovers all together. Get rid of her you dont need I consider doing that an immature action. He was shaking for our entire conversation and got the message. My H and her had very similar personality. I wanted so much to see her as a victim because facing the truth that she chose of her own free will to betray me and risked the loss of our marriage to be with a 'man' who had abandoned her for 30 years was just too painful for me to admit. and go bang other women! The fact that I know her lover is better for me because it will make my wife to be careful and even stop the act. Please note: The suggestions and advice offered on this web site are opinions only and are not to be used in the place of professional psychological counseling or medical advice. Trust destroyed and dont think i would ever trust again. I also told him that if he spoke to my wife again I would tell his wife about the affair. I made my vowels to him, not them, dont owe them anything. Confronting her would only bring more conflicts into our marriage thereby creating distance between me and my husband. I will confront my wife not her lover Peter Garuba. She was still in denial even though she knew. His annoyance crossed the threshold when he saw the man responsible for everything on one of the channels. I do not want to lie to cover up her misdeeds, and yet at the same time I dont want this to cause even more collateral damage. She vowed to leave him and told me she had divorce papers ready to go. If you've been tempted to confront the affair partner, leave it to professionals. He would lie about the weather if I couldnt see outside the window for myself. She woman would rather call the police and have me slapped with a warning THAT WILL show up on enhanced criminal record checks for life than have a conversation with me. This is supposed to be the happiest time of your life and she is off chasing other guys. My husband does stay in touch with his dad some. Doing that wouldnt make a difference Eseiegbe Efe. We had a 'good' conversation during which I was even vulnerable enough to weep. Rick, thank you for this article. Goes to show you its all their own issues, not anything to do with us. With the hubby she is the regular loving housewife. If she is spreading her legs and orifices wide for him to fine tune her plumbing on a daily basis, so be it. For the last few weeks, Ive been sitting on this evidence, but tonight I finally confronted her, literally just a couple of hours ago. She used the same kinds of words my lover did; you could tell that they were a couple. Before I found out the truth we had a long talk and I said she could tell me anything, and that we could work it out. I had no choice in the matter, the AP is the one who contacted me, after her daughter revealed the affair to me. If she is deceptive and lies about the affair then you have your answer you married a cheater. I work through things and my coping skills are excellent. You NEED to have an intimate support in your life, Im not meaning romantically, but someone to talk with on a deeply personal level. I can honestly say now that i have forgiven my husband, and that feels so good. If she doesnt stop she should consider the marriage over. My focus has been on my relationship with my wife. Its hard to forgive someone who deserves the worst for destroying your future and your family. She had been deceiving me for 2 years whilst having an affair with my husband, manipulating situations, even sending anon letters to give me hints he is over the side in the hope I will kick him out do they can be together without me ever realisingwhy all of the sudden she would be telling me the truth. And go by Rickys advice, I agree 100% it is effective. I hope it infuriates her. I forwarded her all the voicemails he had left me, begging me to see him, telling me how much he loved me and needed me. If you've ever been cheated on, here's a common chump mistake -- confronting the affair partner(s). Make it CLEAR that you're aware of the truthbut be vague on details. You can still be the role model your son deserves, you can still be the person you have always been and more. And I can handle the truth, no matter how hard it is and I know that no one owes it to me, but it doesn't mean I won't try to get it. My candid answer is no. I'm the type of person that needs honest answers. Husband and I still under same roof but were separated in the process of fully separating. I wish you luck and stop being afraid. What a s$%&show. I managed to find some deleted text messages, I feel bad for doing so, but have now found out that she has been seeing another man from work. Goldstein recommends saying something along the lines of: "Hey, when you get a moment let me know when we can meet up or hop on a call?" Your not a wimp for being cheated on or for being in shock at this discovery. Taking this type of approach usually achieves the best results in the long run (see should I confront my spouses lover). Let her go. I just told her I KNOW what is going on with XXXXX. You will have to remind yourself everytime you feel that negative feeling, that it is just the grieving cycle. That was in 1993, then, in 2019 I discovered that my H didnt stop at this 1 affair, he continued trying to fill his personal void throughout our entire marriage and this included reigniting his affair with this first woman years after I extended the olive branch Does this make me a chump? Mine lives on our Street. We think they have no idea that when my husband met the AP, she was married to one man, living with another man, and getting on Ashley Madison looking for married men for sex. Keep your emotions under complete control. If you go to her place of employment to cause her to maybe lose her job, well that is going beyond letting her (enjoy and) suffer the consequences of her actions, it is creating consequences by your initiative. Spaces fill up quickly for this course. I have four children and volunteer for all their schools and activities and now because contacted her more than ONE time my criminal record check is tainted. 2. She has been my best friend for over a decade, and has given me beautiful children, whom I adore. The reality from her own words was that she will never be anyones number 1 and that hurts her deeply. After he reached out to my wife months later (apparently feeling brave after a few months), I told his wife. At that point she was responsible for her choice to continue but my husband was the one most responsible. Im not sure if I should respond to the apology or just ignore. That's totally permitted, however. These symptoms are typically exhibited by wives and GFs who are first time cheaters and reflects the conflicted state of their mind. I don't want to drag her through the mud. There are no kids and assets are minimal so that is not my concern. All rights reserved. I would highly recommend giving this a try. It was sweet. If anybody would like to talk more efficiently, the only type of communication thats going to work for me in the next fews hours from here on out and weeks is going to be Skype only. expert. Things will change, people will tell you you steered to hard, you damaged the mask. Click to opt-out of Google Analytics tracking. Don't let this woman use you as a doormat or she will cheat on you again. My wife will even marry the man. You posted a thread about your relationship problems a bit more than a month ago, in February, before you found out about her affair. What if you should meet up with her by chance? She didn't say anything about the affair. I would love to know what software was used? But I am not vindictive. At this point she clearly has no respect for you whatsoever. Be pliant and outwardly considerate. Ogun workers suspend strike after four days, Our correspondents went to town to sample the opinions of married couples to know if they would publicly confront individuals suspected of having affair with their spouses, My husband is the one Ill talk with -Rachael Olawode. Its wrong for me to engage her lover in afight in public. If you have no one and just want to vent, please send me a message and I will listen to all you want to say on skype. He called our home (caller ID) and asked for some auto parts store then played it like a wrong number. I wish you all strength. We treat each other differently now. Because my husband is a LIAR and I don't believe a word he says. Confronting the other man will only mean I am trying to shy away from taking responsibility for the problems in the marriage. I hope this vignette is helpful to others thinking about whether to contact an AP. You really need to let go of this whole thing. So so arrogant. I did confront her. Your wife does not respect you or your marriage. They might actually be crazy. It still stings that I became a villain in someone's life story. Marriages are based on open communication, trust, and a common goal. Think about yourself man, it's all you can do. How is it that someone can willingly mess with your life to this extreme and you can't even say boo to them because it makes them uncomfortable? My challenge remains to never the lesson but to forget ALL the details. Maybe I am a wimp, I'm here for advice and I can't help the way I feel. What about telling the affair partner's spouse if the motive for doing so is to clear your conscience morally and being truthful? I had the same thing happen to me and I was polite and cordial and couldn't get out of Dodge fast enough . If she is When we met I did not confront him but rather simply asked him how it started & what it meant to him & so on. Then I ghosted. Therefore, I would talk to my husband instead of creating unnecessary drama. @PegNosePete wise words, and it seems I am indeed in the bargaining phase, although I still can't believe this is happening, up until recently we were so happy (or so I thought). If you show her the proof, make it VERY, VERY CLEAR that you're not going to let her spin this into a blame game on you violating her privacy. WebTheres no point in confronting those lovers. What youre going through, is called the dreaded grief cycle. Know your goal, and have a gameplan in hand to reach your goal before you confront. The sea calls to you again. No. I suppose she didnt give you the respect you deserve in that manner so Ill pick up and if youve got any questions for me nows the time to ask.". This is just a new beginning. And your life. She will need to resolve her feelings. Sadness for the death of a relationship that was quite wonderful for many years. What you thought was your world is actually not the truth at all. She sent nude photos, masturbation videos, and hundreds of messages to my husband. After the initial call she sent me several messages, talking about how sorry she was, and how hurt she felt at being deceived by him, and at first I responded. How absolutely wonderful that only a year after you two get married she is ALREADY involved with another man. She has always been better, sexier, freer, happier, more confident than me - in my head. As you already admitted, given the situation find yourself in, your self confidence is broken, you can not think straight, and your mind is just going crazy trying to make sense of it all. Too late for this article. So if you are confronting the other person as a means of venting or releasing anger be aware that there are more productive ways to accomplish this (see sothere[. Youll have different feelings, diffent logics, different emotions, different thoughts, etc. In her own words, she is having the 'best of both worlds'. I caught them and confronted her about the affair three months ago. THAT was my mistake. Incontrovertible proof. Do you have a general question youd like to ask? If you really think she will change then I have huge admiration for you, but it'll be a rough journey and you need to be able to be open with each other. When the PI is done with his job, he will have a watertight folder of documentary evidence that nails her infedility. I wanted him to know that he took advantage of a severely depressed woman who for many years was under the care of a psychiatrist for this diagnosis. He denies that it became physical but he lied about everything and kept the relationship completely secret for at least three years so Ill never be completely sure. Until you finally hit acceptance. Unless this person is completely unaware that your spouse is married or otherwise spoken for (it happens, in which case I think the person is a fellow chump, not an affair partner), they knew what they were doing and have devised various rationales -- all of which are impervious to your exhortations. I'm sure the tellers had their antennas tuned all the way up since we were discussing infidelity and different ways to respond. His lover is not a problem at all to me. Hugs all around. And so forth. I would tell her family members the truth. The content on Tiny Buddha is designed to support, not replace, medical or psychiatric treatment. Thanks everyone for your messages. They were married for 17 years and he died of stage 4 lung cancer at age 60. WebI confronted my wife's lover the morning after I found out. First of all, even if he did say these things, (which he claims he didn't, but who knows the truth) how could you look your married lover's wife, one who just lost a much wanted pregnancy, straight in the eye and make these claims to her? But I didnt get that vibe from her at all. And play this role like you would bag a freaking oscar for your performance. Everything went down just like the post mentioned. Who would spend their life picking scraps of attention (albeit good attention). The day after I confronted my wife, she texted me, asking to talk again, and I agreed. You clearly know that. This also backfired. Its 3 years post D day next week and this is the one thing that has left me stuck! Space Is Limited! Yes, you most definitely should and I'll tell you why. Chances are if u are debating a subject such as this you've recently found out your wife che My wife and I are doing very well but still see him all over town daily . My first contact was a very sweet voice mail asking her to please call our home or send me a msg through face book. The first thing she'll ask is how I know - should I reveal this? Worse, if you come at them all classy -- appealing to their sense of shared humanity and common decency -- they will delight in their superiority. She asked me questions. They now live the life I was supposed to have. I know you want to tell them off, but it's futile for a variety of reasons. Go get a big steak, go lift some weights and then think about this. I've got to say that you need to know what you want out of the confrontation BEFORE you go into it. They both mutually said the worst about me, making me a common enemy. Do NOT get tempted to lose your temper as well. How to Deal With a Lying Spouse. I was friendly with her as well so I contacted her and she was stunned that my wife had told me about the affair. Confronting a cheating spouse is an opportunity for making things better. Will confronting the other woman or man only further his or her resolve? It was easy for her to manipulate his schedule in order for them to spend time together. spouse. You! Wow I never thought to think of it like this. Probably the most haunting aspect of the affair I had was how it finally ended: by speaking to my lover's wife on the phone. You don't want anything to do with it, and must consider quitting your marriage before wifey's fascination for strange hot dogs takes epidemic proportions. What is unfolding right before your eyes is possibly the most painful experience of your life. Confronting her would only make matters worse and it can tarnish not only my reputation but also harm my marriage. What I noticed most about her was her voice. You would then dictate from a position of power, absolute power. My head was kind of spinning due to this, and then I accidentally She'll use your snooping as her defence oldest play in the cheater's handbook. That hurt. That we two have serious problems and good luck. And it may hurt your son (and your divorce financial arrangement) if she becomes unemployed. She also knew I wasn't the first affair and probably wouldn't be the last. Contributors control their own work and posted freely to our site. Over the 7 weeks ( which is today) I tried 4 times to contact her. This seems cut throat, but will help you if a custody battle comes up. Designed specifically for wayward spouses, Hope for Healing is a supportive, nonjudgmental environment for you to heal and develop empathy. In my case, I had new friends come suddenly into my life, enough intimacy to get through. Think, coolly about these options. As a person of faith I dug deep and clung tightly to my identity in Christ. Start planning and executing on your plans. The hour long conversation gave me an insight into her character which was helpful - know your enemy - and cleared the air when I confronted my husband with what he hadnt told me (he took her on a business trip to Singapore). I thought she was not worth my time! If someone wants to engage in an affair, or leave you for an affair partner, no amount of rational argument is going to sway them otherwise. Confronting her would only bring more conflicts into our marriage thereby creating distance between me and my husband. The are so arrogant when they had the affair. They use tracking devices to keep a tab on the love birds and their cars to corroborate the cellphone trail, photo/video evidences. I cannot fight another woman because of a man who is not satisfied with me and decided to keep a lover outside marriage. For me, it has helped immensely. I find knowing this makes life decisions much easier. Get tested for STD's since you know this is not the first time. Whatever you have decided by then (divorce, reconciliation etc) would be execute per your wishes and she would very well like to go in for an (uncontested) mutual amicable divorce (on your terms). He is to blame because he would not say no. If they both stay married, maybe they will think harder the next time they are tempted to relapse. Not as bad as you, but I do fell your pain. It made me feel like a worthless unloveable person . I choose not to indulge or become a part of the negativity in the world. That is all. I need him to know for me. I want to call his cell this morning and say "this is very awkward for me but do you have a couple minutes. Build on yourself, learn all you can, and eventually you will love again when you are ready. It can start with your attitude and habits toward mudane chores, and grow into appreciation for the littlest of lifes pleasures. I never responded after that. As we discussed more, I think I understand more now. Your wife had a 20 year affair, and you believe it was none of her fault? What she is doing is her problem, not yours. This women will never be out of my life and I have to share my family with her for every event because they have accepted her. Does that make any difference? How fabulous. Expose the affair to the OM's wife or girlfriend 4. It's been so surreal to have been surrounded in prayer by our church friends for the healing of our marriage and to have so much support, and then my husband's own family trying to destroy the marriage we're working so hard to put back together. Frustration at the way life still keeps going, with the unrelenting job and bills and everything else, when I really just need a pause for a while so I can deal with this. He just needs to do it. Leave it up to her to decide what to tell her family. I calmly told him never to speak to my wife again. Really man, get some self-respect. Don't play your hand that you *know* about the other man. But you are still a father. Aaaandlaughed. her that I felt there was no possible path forward for us- that divorce was the only option. My advice is that you need to confront your wife. Your relationship is with her, not with her lovers. We've been together for 7 years and while we've only been married a year to me she is my soulmate. And she wanted details. I wish that for your sake he won't want to say anything in reply to what you say, but knowing APs, he will and it will be unpredictable and probably extremely painful what he says in reply, even if it isn't founded on truth. You need to calmly explain your feelings and tell her to put herself in your shoes. So while you may have an She is married and moved 3 houses away from us while the affair was happening.She pursued a friendship with me. I have no way to know though, because I can't even confront the guy. As a result of their friendship with her, our children and I have cut off contact with them. It gave me even more strength and let me feel better about myself. I would like to communicate with you further! Damn this is hard, I'm glad you are all here. I agree with this article. Nobody and I repeat nobody respects a doormat. And again, what do you hope to accomplish by calling your wifes lover? Nothing! Just remove yourself from the equation. As much as you love heryou might well be better off without her in your life, given what all has gone on. *Embrace the Initial Pros: Sad because one side of the bed is empty? We all live in the same city..a small one..ugh! So i answered the phone. How do I confront her? My partner lies whenever I have asked for the truth. Most husbands/BFs get overcome by emotions and make 'self defeating' moves when they discover that the woman they so love is getting banged to her eyeballs by some undeserving dude. When you have a PI on your corner, he will ask you to stop shadowing her or tinkering with her email etc. Hi after almost 3 years the AP contacted me. The storm has passed, the boat is in tatters but still serviceable, its time to make port and see what can be done. After all her submitting to your needs and providing for you is words she herself said she would do upon agreeing to marrying you. I told her Gid has a plan for her life and that plan is not my husband. She wants out? My husband called it off and she continued to pursue him. This should not be and I will try to avoid It's not about me. My husband had an affair when the kids were 8 and 13. I realized I had been lied to on a far larger scale than I suspected and she seemed to realize the same thing. He was visibly shaking during the encounter and when he cried to my wife she then saw him as pathetic. Does it make a difference? What you will be going through is denial, bargaining, depression, anxiety, resentment, anger, etc. Hold on for two months. Should I tell the affair partner's spouse? It is only a mad man that will do that. I still feel like I did the right thing by exposing him to his family and his church, but the real issue was my wife; he was just a symptom. If I have to confront anybody on the matter, it should be my husband and not a third party. I wouldn't wish this misery on anyone. Over analysing this is doing my head in - I need to take action, however painful. What would you do? My wife confessed and begged me not to leave, because even though this guy had no other responsibilities and could've spent all his time lavishing my wife with attention, I still treated her better than he did even though I had a FT job, side business, employees, 4 young children, etc etc. Talking to the affair partner is comparing apples and oranges. Only God can make this work. And that was that. I greeted him Many of them come specialized in the art of 'spousal cheating', and would be more than happy to render their services and time to you, for a fee which is reasonable. All Rights Reserved. I just need some answers and I am not getting them! Love, romance, and other sweet unicorns and She used our meeting to gain sympathy from her husband. I just give you my opinion from some real life experiences. If you do not respect yourself then who will? Your confrontation is fresh conversational content for your husband and his affair partner. The shocking twist to this story is that the purported man is not only a coworker, If he sees a dress he likes and he cannot buy it for me but get it for another lady, then there is a problem and we have to solve it. "I just finished Hope for Healing and am proud of the changes that I already feel in myself and my marriage. 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